Recently I was stroking the cat when I felt a pushy energy come through me.
A vibe that wanted to make the cat purr.
I noticed some more aggressive way of touching and as I noticed this I paused.

I went for appreciation of this supple creature instead. Felt the fur, the texture of the body beneath my fingers and just appreciated/observed the feel of cat underneath my fingers.

And soon she did purr….

This experience made me think of the way humans can have sexual interactions – pushing each other for certain sensations/peak experiences while missing out so much on simply appreciating the depth of the present moment (with all its potential insecurities and awkardnesses) with the depth of each other’s (and one’s own) body, soul and mind with so much unexplored territory…